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Looking for someone to share life with
Age 79 From Walnut Creek, California - - Online Now
Man Seeking A Woman

Basic Information

First name  
Richard
I Can Speak  
English
I Would Describe Myself As  
I'm a 79 year old, semi-retired psychiatrist, living in Walnut Creek. I walk my neighborhood and say hello to whomever walks by, go to the gym, read (mostly fiction), listen to music (classical, folk rock), go to dance performances (I'm on the board of the Diablo Ballet), try not to watch much t.v. (it feels a bit like wiggling a loose tooth), have friends over and cook for them, spend time with family (I have no kids but lots of nieces and nephews) and keep the plants in the garden watered, pruned and looking their best. I'm reintroducing myself to my guitar after a long time in its case.

I'm a soft-core liberal and try my best to do my part in making people's lives better. Though I attend synagogue irregularly, it has a meaningful part in my life. Among other things, it ties me to our traditions.

My wife died almost three years ago and I miss her, but time doesn't stop and I'm ready to move on. I would like to find someone who is curious about herself and others, who is comfortable in revealing herself and interested in my doing the same, who finds humor and compassion in our short-comings and is looking for a long-term, emotionally intimate relationship.
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Leo

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
Average
My Height Is  
5' 6 (1.68 m)
My Eyes Are  
Hazel
My Ethnicity Is  
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is  
Widowed
I Have Kids  
No
I Want Kids  
No
My Best Feature Is  
Smile
Body Art  
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is  
Silver
I Have One Or More Of These  
No pets
Willing To Relocate  
No

More about him

I keep kosher  
No
I go to synagogue  
Once a month
Do you speak or read Hebrew?  
Read
My favorite home cooked jewish meal is  
Brisket

Status

My Education Level Is  
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is  
Part-time
My Speciality Is  
Medical / Health
My Job Title Is  
Psychiatrist
I Make This Much In A Year  
More Than $150,000USD
I Live  
Alone
At Home  
Friends Come Over Often
I'm A Smoker  
No
I Drink  
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Brain
My Social Behavior Is  
Friendly, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Cooking, Family, Gardening, Learning, Music, Reading, Religion / Spirituality, Volunteering
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Reading A Book, Staying At Home
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
A Zoom call to talk and decide if we want to meet in person. If so, then coffee, something casual, where we can talk and get to know each other a bit more.
I've Always Wanted To Try  
I've done pretty much everything I've wanted to do. I like cooking for friends, sincere conversation, dance performances, chamber music performances, gardening, reading, learning, thinking about stuff
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly

Views

My Religion Is  
Reform
I Attend Services  
Once A Month
My Political Views Are  
Liberal
My Goal In Life Is  
To be a good friend, to help people, to be a good partner, to make a difference
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Friendly

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch  
News
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Comedy, Romance, Drama
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Blues, Classical, Folk
When I Read, I Always Read  
Fiction, Philosophy, Science
My Idea Of Fun Is  
Spending time with friends and family, cooking together, taking walks together, keeping up with each other, talking and finding more about each other, discovering new things.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Empathy, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Thoughtfullness, Wit
What Do You Look For?  
Someone who is comfortable in her skin, has some idea what she's on this earth for, cares for others, has good relationships with her family, who is open and curious about herself and would be curious about me, is comfortable with emotional language
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Committed, Marriage
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